Not all sexual encounters are designed for slow enduring romance and long-term relationships. Some people want a one-night stand. For whatever reasons, a passionate encounter is their focus. There is no time, nor the inclination, to create a long-lasting relationship. The process in this case will be well and truly accelerated. In [...]
To enhance the sense of hearing, think about all the sounds that give you pleasure. Then discover the sounds your partner enjoys. Does he or she like the quiet sound of the country and the beach, or the excitement of cafes in the city? Getting on well with others is a matter of understanding their [...]
How you communicate with a sexual partner mirrors how you communicate everyday with the world.
Here is a significant question for you: what are you doing and how are you doing it, when you know you are at your very best in a communication situation? What we mean by this is: there are times in our [...]
Women should stay away from dressing completely in red since it has overt sexual connotations unless this is their intention. Wearing all pink is too romantic for the first meeting. If you like the sophistication of black, navy, dark brown or dark grey reconsider your thoughts for this occasion. They are daunting and not friendly. [...]
What you wear on this first date depends on where you are going. Think it through. Visualise what most people at the venue would be wearing. A good tip is to dress the same level as the other people around you or one level above. Women are tremendously impressed by men [...]
If you are prepared to experiment a bit, you can work out different techniques that can satisfy both partners. Remember, a man doesn’t need an erection to be able to ejaculate or orgasm. The cause of erection difficulties might be psychological or reversible.
Apart from diabetes or disease in the blood vessels, there are many other [...]
Many people use fantasies to help them overcome their sexual problems. If anxiety is a problem, then thinking through an imaginary sexual encounter is a bit like rehearsing for a stage-play. You might still get stage fright but at least you know your lines. By imagining romantic or exotic places, or different sexual partners you [...]
As well as coping with changing roles, women go through fears about changes in their bodies and it’s common to feel as though you’ve lost your sexual attractiveness. Four months after Julie had a baby boy she said, ‘I really put on a lot of weight this time and I haven’t had the energy to [...]
Women can lose sight of themselves as something more than a baby-making machine. If the man’s sperm count is adequate, the physical impact is essentially on the woman. Remembering to take your vaginal temperature every day before you get up and plotting it dutifully on a graph to predict when you will be ovulating is [...]
There are many more reasons for avoiding a commitment. If you grew up in an atmosphere of hostility and lack of affection and you have bad memories of your parents fighting constantly, then it is understandable that you would want to avoid placing yourself in the same situation.
Other past experiences will have an inevitable effect. [...]